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Mar. 24th, 2004 06:43 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
dredpiratebunny..the roommate is here tonight so again, no time for talking...i have this very big cowardly urge to just take off and never look back....but i wont..at least not yet...
...i was going to stay til tomorrow morning, but i think i might just leave tonight...he is leaving very early in the a.m. with his family to go to a wedding over the weekend...a wedding i was supposed to go to with him...in new jersey...he invited me a while ago...but im not going because i cant afford a plane ticket...and i guess he doesnt want me along badly enough to get me one...but he just ordered a $150 crossbow from china...yup...i see where the priorities are...
...why does the sex have to be so great??
...would it be so hard for him to maybe buy me some flowers?..not every weekend, but maybe once?....we've been together for about 8 months, but technically a couple since november...i shouldnt have to ask for them...
maybe thats just a stoopid girl response, but thats just how it is...
...i was going to stay til tomorrow morning, but i think i might just leave tonight...he is leaving very early in the a.m. with his family to go to a wedding over the weekend...a wedding i was supposed to go to with him...in new jersey...he invited me a while ago...but im not going because i cant afford a plane ticket...and i guess he doesnt want me along badly enough to get me one...but he just ordered a $150 crossbow from china...yup...i see where the priorities are...
...why does the sex have to be so great??
...would it be so hard for him to maybe buy me some flowers?..not every weekend, but maybe once?....we've been together for about 8 months, but technically a couple since november...i shouldnt have to ask for them...
maybe thats just a stoopid girl response, but thats just how it is...
I think it's a Law of Balances
Date: 2004-03-24 06:05 pm (UTC)The sex is great because everything else is wrong.
*hug*
Tom
Re: I think it's a Law of Balances
Date: 2004-03-25 05:07 am (UTC)ooohhhh....i see!...it all comes clear...so if i start having lousy sex, things will get better??
(:3
Re: I think it's a Law of Balances
Date: 2004-03-25 06:30 am (UTC)Well, it's a balance thing. The sex will be lousy, but he'll be kind, considerate, and pretty much your closest friend in the whole wide world...
...and you'll be desperate for sex with anyone else.
You just don't want to go to extremes. It's possible to get good sex and good love, but (I think) very hard to get mind-blowing sex and heart-growing love. I think in part because great mind-blowing sex is stuff that pushes your boundaries or just comes in from left field. It's this weird new thing and you like it. But the physical side reflects the emotional side and now you're trying to make it work with this person who's completely outside your range of emotional interaction and that just sucks the pain pipe.
"Why yes, I do have a PhD in Bogus Psychology."
Tom